Tuesday, December 31, 2019

Happy New Year!


Happy New Year! 

What does that even mean?  Is it a wish, a challenge or a statement of fact?  Well, we cannot assume that is a statement of fact.  It hasn’t happened yet, so how do we know that the new year will be a happy one?  The statement “Happy New Year” is a wish for those that give it, and it is a challenge to those that receive it.

How can we have a “happy year”?  I propose that the definition of a “happy year” would consist of a year where there are more “happy days” (not the old TV series) than unhappy days.  If that is the case, what will it take to make that happen? 

It comes down to how you spend your time.  What will you do with your time this year?  The year 2020 is a leap year, which means we all have 366 days.  That equates to 8784 hours.  If we sleep approximately 8 hours per night, we will all have 5,856 waking hours and 351,360 waking minutes.

What will you do with your hours and minutes this year?  How will you spend them?  First, let’s talk about the difference between “spending” time and “wasting” time.  What is the difference?  The difference is the end result.  If you “spend” time, you gain something.  If you “waste” time, you gain nothing. (It is beyond the scope of this blog, but I would propose that most activities have some value, even if it is small and that few activities are actually a total waste of time.)

Some people criticize gamers for “wasting” their time.  Is gaming a waste?  What about playing cards or board games, are they a waste of time?  What about watching television or going to the movies?  Is entertainment a poor use of time?  The Bible says that exercise has “little value”, so does that mean that exercise is a waste of time?  (No, the Bible acknowledges that exercise has value on earth, just no value for eternity.  If you are in a hurry to reach eternity, don’t exercise.  LOL.)

Entertainment has some value.  However, like anything else, its value can be overestimated.  Some forms of entertainment have social value, encouraging people to spend quality time with each other.  Other forms of entertainment have health benefits (like sports).  Some are educational.  For all my gaming friends, research shows that there are many benefits to playing video games (cognitive benefits and others).

There are many ways to spend your time.  Read a book.  Research something that you are interested in.  Start a new hobby.  Find a fun way to exercise.  Pray.  Read the Bible.  Start a blog.  Spend time more time on social media.  Spend less time on social media.  Learn to cook (or learn to cook something new).  Travel.  Call someone.  Text someone.  Hang out with someone.  Volunteer somewhere (fire, EMS, hospital, animal shelter, Red Cross, etc).  Go shopping.  Clean something.  Build something.  Take a class. 

So the question is, will you have a “happy new year”?  I propose that it is up to you, and it comes down to how you spend your time.  We all have the same 5,856 waking hours in the new year. Whether we have a “happy” year or a “not happy” year will depend on the CHOICES we make.  As you consider how to spend your time, be sure to consider the benefits (and the costs).  Spend your time wisely, and you will have a happy new year!  The year 2020 can be better than 2019 but it is largely up to you.  Go for it!  Make this the best year ever!

“Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously.” 2 Corinthians 9:6 (NIV)

At the end of this new year, will you look back and say, “I had a good year”?  It’s up to you.  Decide today.  Decide everyday.  Live this year with purpose and intent.